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the foundations of personality-第51章

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money。〃 The world is built up on the sacrifices of the idealists; and eternally it crucifies them。 Wealth and power are to him who has a marketable commodity; and one cannot complain when true genius becomes rich。 But the genius to make money may be and often isan exploiting type of ability; a selfishly practical industry; which neither invents nor is of great service。 The men who now do the basic work in invention and scientific work in laboratories are poorly paid and only now and then honored。 Every year in the United States hundreds of them leave their work in research and seek 〃paying jobs;〃 to the impoverishment of the world; but to their own financial benefit。 Countries where the scramble for wealth is not so keen; where the best brains do not find themselves pressed into business; produce far more science; art and literature than we do; with all our wealth。 We will continue to be a second…rate nation in these regards; still looking for our great American novel and play; still seeking real singers and artists; until our idealism can withstand the pressure of our practical civilization。 For here is a great division in people。 There are those who become enthused by the noble aims of life; by the superiority and service that come in the work of teacher; priest; physician; scientist; philosopher and philanthropist; and those that seek superiority and power in wealth; station and influence。 Those who; will fellowship and those who will power is a short way of putting it; the idealists and the practical is another。 Fellowship is built up on sympathy; pity; friendliness and the desire to help others; it is essentially democratic; and in it runs the cooperative activities of man。 For it is not true that 〃competition is the life of trade〃; cooperation is its life。 Men dig ore in mines; others transport their produce; others smelt it and work it into shape; according to the designs and plans of still other men; then it is transported by new groups and marketed by an endless chain of men whose labors dovetail to the end that mankind has a tool; a habitation or an ornament。 The past and present cooperate in this labor; as do the remote ends of the earth。 Competition is the SPUR of trade; its mighty sinews; its strong heart and stout lungs are cooperative。 Power is aristocratic; and elaborates and calls into play competitive spirit。 In all men the desire for power and the desire for fellowship blend and interplay in their ambitions and activities; in some fellowship predominates; in others power。 If a man specializes in fellowship aims; without learning the secret of power; he is usually futile and sterile of results; if a man seeks power only and disregards fellowship; is hated and is a tyrant; cruel and without pity。 To be an idealist and practical is of course difficult and usually involves a compromise of the ideal。 Some degree of compromise is necessary; and the rigid idealist would have a better sanction for his refusal to compromise if he or any one could be sure of the perfection of his ideal。 The practical seek their own welfare or the welfare of others through direct means; through exerting the power and the influence that is money and station。 Rarely do they build for a distant future; and their goal is in some easily and popularly understood good。 What they say and what they do applies to getting rich or healthy; to being good in a conventional way; success is their goal and that success lies in the tangibles of life。 They easily become sordid and mean; since it is not possible always to separate good and evil when one is governed by expediency and limited idea of welfare。 This is also true;that while the practical usually tend to lose idealism entirely; and find themselves the tools of habits and customs they cannot break from; now and then a practical man reaches a high place of power and becomes the idealist。 Though all men seek power and fellowship; we have a right to ask what are a man's leading pursuits。 And we must be prepared to tear off a mask before we understand the most of our fellows; for society and all of life is permeated with disguise。 Now and then one seeks to appear worse than he is; hates fuss and praise; but this rare bird (to use slang and Latin in one phrase) is the exception that proves the rule that men on the whole try to appear better than they are。 Rarely does a man say; 〃I am after profit and nothing else;〃 although occasionally he does; rarely does the scientist say; 〃I seek fame and reward;〃 even though his main stimulus may be this desire and not the ideal of adding to the knowledge of the world。 Behind the philanthropist may lurk the pleasure in changing the lives of others; behind the reformer the picture of himself in history。 The best of men may and do cherish power motives; and we must say that to seek power is ethically good; provided it does not injure fellowship。 One must not; however; be misled by words; duty; service; fellowship come as often to the lips of the selfish as the unselfish。 We spoke of power as a form of superiority。 Since all superiority is comparative; there are various indirect ways of seeking superiority and avoiding inferiority。 One of these is by adverse criticism of our fellows。 The widespread love of gossip; the quick and ever…present tendency to disparage others; especially the fortunate and the successful; are manifestations of this type of superiority seeking。 Half the humor of the world is the pleasure; produced by a technique; of feeling superior to the boor; the pedant; the fool; the new rich; the pompous; the over…dignified; etc。 Half; more than half; of the conversation that goes on in boudoir; dining room; over the drinks and in the smoking room; is criticism; playful and otherwise; of others。 There are people in whom the adversely critical spirit is so highly developed that they find it hard to praise any one or to hear any one praisedtheir criticism leaps to the surface in one way or another; in the sneer; in the 〃butt;〃 in the joke; in the gibe; in the openly expressed attack。 This way of being superior may be direct and open; more often it is disguised。 Many a woman (and man) who denounces the sinner receives from her contemplation of that sinner the most of her feeling of virtue and goodness。 The more bitterly the self…acknowledged 〃saint〃 denounces the sinner; the more; by implication; he praises himself。 People seek the strangest roads to the feeling of superiority。 From that classical imbecile who burnt down the Temple of Diana to the crop of young girls who invent tales of white slavery in order to stand in the public eye as conspicuous victims; notoriety has been mistaken for fame by those desperate for public attention。 To be superior some way; even if only in crime and foolishness; brings about an immense amount of laughable and deplorable conduct to which only a Juvenal could do justice。 The world yields to superiority such immense tribute that to obtain recognition as superior becomes a dominant motive。 How that superiority is to be reached presents great difficulties; and the problem is solved according to the character of the individual。 At the same time that we seek superiority we seek to be liked; to be esteemed; to be respected。 These are not the same things; but are sufficiently alike in principle to be classed together。 With some the desire to be liked becomes a motive that ruins firmness of purpose and success; as in the well…known 〃good fellow;〃accommodating; obliging and friendly; who sacrifices achievement to this minor form of fellowship。 On a larger plane there is the writer or artist who sacrifices his best capacities in order to please the popular fancy; seeks popularity rather than greatness; for it is seldom that the two coincide。 Back of many a man's 〃respectability〃 is the fear of being disliked or discredited by his group。 TO BE RESPECTABLE; TO LIVE SO THAT NEITHER THE NEIGHBORS NOR ONE'S OWN RATHER UNCRITICAL CONSCIENCE CAN CRITICIZE; IS PERHAPS THE MOST COMMON AIM IN LIFE。 There are some who are all things to all men; merely out of the desire to be agreeable; who find it easy to agree with any opinion; because they have not the courage to be disliked。 Even the greatest men yield to the desire to be admired and liked; thoug
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